Friends With Benefits

Update as of 10-15-2018 -- The case has been dismissed by both parties.  As we have agreed to move forward, the dismissed case will remain confidential.

When Victor had his extreme case of paranoia in mid June 2011, he made it clear that he did not want to even run into me. He told me that I had to stay away from the places that he and I used to go to together. I told him that it would be difficult as we lived just a few blocks away.  He responded that he moved to West Hollywood first. He asked me to move somewhere else and to leave him alone  He also said that if he saw me in those areas he would consider it harassment and would think that I was seriously "stalking" him.

We went from being lovers, best friends, business partners to "enemies." He clearly stated that he did not want to see me and that any contact from me would be considered harassment.  I could not believe this. I actually thought he had gone insane.  His mother and I continued talking everyday during the whole summer until Victor took my money from the bank and disappeared on August 3, 2011.  Daniela, his mother, would constantly tell me that Victor loved me, to be patient with him. 

Marco Cuadros, his manager, also told me that Victor was not being himself, that he apparently had gone crazy but that he would go back to his usual "him." I wanted to believe Marco and Daniela. However, Victor was getting crazier by the minute.  I felt that he was trying to set me up for "harassment." As soon as I realized that, I confronted him and made him admit he had had a sexual relationship with me. I wanted to have it in writing... And I got it.  Here are the text messages we exchanged.

He admits to sleeping with me and asks me if I slept with him to make a movie with no money... according to him, in his world I got "a hell of a deal"!  DID I???

Then he starts talking about always being honest with me about our friendship.  He knew how much I loved him and continued sleeping with me. He had many opportunities to stop the intimacy and he did not.

In the text messages below, he admits again to sleeping with me. This time we talk about being friends "with benefits." He said that he stopped the benefits because I was going crazier.  Who was going crazier???? He was.  His statement was clearly a projection!!!

My attorney told me that these messages were enough to prove that he and I had an intimate/sexual relationship. These text messages were introduced as evidence during Victor's deposition. You will not believe the justification he gave.  Read "Premeditation"and watch the video.

Disclaimer – As of October 15, 2018, all legal issues have been resolved. This resolution was reached during arbitration. There are no pending issues related to fraud or theft. The resolution was mutually agreeable. There will be no more posts written about this story.

Our Relationship - The Trevino Version - PART 2

Update as of 10-15-2018 -- The case has been dismissed by both parties.  As we have agreed to move forward, the dismissed case will remain confidential.

Late January 2011

I never expected our relationship to take the turn it took. As soon as we decided to make the film "Looking for Clarissa" (formerly "Looking for Clara"), our relationship went from, best friends and lovers to betrayal and legal battles. Although it did not happen immediately, he turned into a totally different person in only three months!

It was surprising to me how Victor's behavior started to change in early February 2011. He became very focused. It was evident that he wanted to make a film. He saw it as his only way out of his desperate financial situation. He had to do something so he would not lose his home in California.  As soon as I sold my condominium in early February, he knew I had the money to produce the movie and help him save his home.

Victor became even more sexual with me. He wanted to have sex every single time we met. Sometimes he would call me to come over just for that reason.  I remember one specific time, he said "can you come over now?" I said, "right now?" He replied, "yes, right now! I need a ride." I said, your car broke down again, you need me to take you to the mechanic?" He said, "no, I need to ride YOU." I found that funny. He would always say that he rode me instead of me riding him... that made me laugh every time. 

Now when I think why he was demanding sex more often, I realize that he probably wanted me closer to him to make sure he would get the money for the movie and I would not back out. Whatever it was, it does not matter anymore. He knew how much I loved him and that I would do anything for him.

First Signs of Paranoia

I first noticed Victor's paranoia when we had a problem with Rachel Kennedy, one of the original investors. She decided to pull out her investment. She accused Victor of being a manipulator and a user. I took Victor's side, of course. Because I loved him, I defended and protected him.

Rachel wrote to me:

I did tell Victor about this email that Rachel sent to me. He then demanded to see it and to see my reply to her. Please see text messages below. Victor and I had our first real fight because of this.  He did not believe I had stood up for him and defended him. I should have listened to what Rachel was communicating through her email. She was smart to get out. I, on the other hand, got deeper into it.

 This is what Victor replied:

 And then he wrote about SLANDER, something I became very familiar with after he sued me.

I asked Victor if he ever slept with Rachel. She was (and still is) a beautiful woman. I would have understood if he said yes. In fact, I expected him to admit it. However, he denied it and said that he had not and would NEVER have sex with her. Then he started comparing her to me, telling me I was beautiful and natural... and she was not.  I am an intuitive woman. And I am not dumb. I knew there was more than what Victor wanted to admit.  I opted to not ask anymore.

After Victor took my money, right before he sued me, I met with Rachel and asked her if she ever slept with him. She immediately said yes.  Of course! that makes more sense. She also stated that Victor was a monster. I did not know what she meant by that... But I sure found out when he sued me and the scandal he created traveled the world.

For more about this subject, go to "Paranoia and Delusion"

Loan

Victor asked me for a loan to save his home. He needed to refinance his first mortgage and pay off a second loan. Originally, I was going to lend him the money and have a formal contract to make it official and to protect me. He decided to add the amount he needed as a loan (about 14,000) to the production budget. Please see text messages below.

In order for him to get the money from me to save his home, we had to raise the budget from $115,000 to $130,000. I did not mind doing this for my man. I would have done anything for him... And I did.

Please go to "The Loan" for more information about this subject and to watch a great video.

Stress and End of Intimacy

February, March, April and May of 2011 were very stressful months for Victor, me and anyone involved in the production of "Looking for Clara." Victor was working really hard to get everything ready for the filming in Italy.

We were still very close and intimate up to the time he left, when I took him to the LAX airport in early April. I did notice that he had a short temper and little patience. I justified his anger and frustration with lack of sleep and a high level of stress. I loved this man and was not to add any more stress to his life. I was nice and accommodating to him during the pre-production of our movie.

The last time we were intimate was right before he left for Italy in early April. I never thought that it would be the last time he and I were to be together - physically and emotionally.

Filming in Italy

We had to pretend we were not and had never been "together" when we were filming in Italy.  I played that part very well. Many of the cast and crew suspected that there was more between Victor and I. They asked Victor repeatedly. I believe that his lie got bigger and bigger, every time he had to justify our "relationship." Why would someone believe in an actor who had never directed a movie before? Who would risk that type of money just as an "investment"? There must me more of a relationship. That is what people started to believe... Of course, because it was the TRUTH.

Read "Filming in Italy" for more information about what happened in Italy.

Breaking Up

In Italy
I have already covered this point in another post. Please go to "The Break-Up" to learn what happened in Italy when our romantic/intimate relationship officially ended.

Back in the US

Although our romantic and sexual relationship ended when we officially broke up in Rome, we were still to break up our business relationship and friendship.  Because just going through that final break-up was journey to hell itself, I feel I should dedicate an exclusive post just to that.  Please go to "Friends With Benefits"

See Text Messages Below.

Our Relationship - The Trevino Version - PART 1

My Version of How Our Relationship Developed

Victor and I met on line. Isn't this a common way for many people to meet nowadays? We started communicating on facebook around June 2009.  We had sporadic communication via instant messaging on facebook.

Victor contacted me via IM on Facebook on September 1st, 2009. This "chat" and telephone/skype conversation is very important because it has become the central point of evidence used during Victor's deposition. This chat/interaction is the subject in several of the videos I have posted - The Facebook Hacker and Amnesia, among others.

Victor did not expect me to have copies of the facebook chats. The best story he could come up with was the "hacker" explanation and the highly creative "8 Impostor Story." He could not simply admit that he had written those messages. He assures that he NEVER flirted with me. The hacker did!

Please go to "How We Met" to see more detailed information and proof of how we first started communicating and our first encounter in person.

June 2010

We became very close immediately after Victor and I met in person again in early June 2010. We started to communicate every single day, either by phone, text, email or skype. In fact, there was no day we did not communicate from that point on until our intimate relationship officially ended in mid June 2011.


Our relationship started as a flirtatious and sexual relationship and it developed into a more deep connection.

Close Friends

Our relationship was more than a close friendship, we were also lovers. It is true that Victor and I talked about our relationship several times and we did not have a "label" for it.

He confided in me about his financial situation, his house going on foreclosure and his bad experience with his ex-wife. We became very close. I offered to help him take care of some things, jokingly stating that I would act as a "personal assistant."  It was clear that I was not his assistant as I was the "qualified" business person with the financial means. I started developing deep feelings for Victor and wanted to help him as much as I could.

Inside Jokes

• Left Hand - When we would lie in bed or cuddle, he would always take the right side and I would take the left. I could only hold him and "touch" him with my left hand. That is why he called me his "left hand" or his "lefty."  He would jokingly say that he would introduce me as Adriana, his left hand. And when people would say, "left hand? shouldn't it be the right hand? Why the left hand?" He would reply "Because she's very good with the left hand."  We laughed about this for months. During his deposition, my attorney mistakenly asked him if I had ever called HIM (Victor) my left hand or lefty. The question should have been, if he, Victor had ever called ME his left hand or lefty. Victor immediately answered that YES, that he had called me that because I was a woman - a man would be the right hand and the woman would be the left hand. He did not admit to any sexual connotation.

• Ditto - Victor wrote a couple of lines for his script "Arturo Bond," where Arturo Bond and the sexy female agent had just had sex. She tells him "I love you," and he replies, "dildo" instead of "ditto."  For some reason, Victor thought this was funny and would say it to me constantly when I said "I love you" to him.  See text messages below.  That is why when the incident that made TMZ happened, when he sends me a picture of a "dildo," I actually thought that he was saying "I love you too." 

• Church - To him being in church was being in the bathroom. You can imagine what "praying" was. I actually do not believe this is an inside joke. He used this joke with many people. It always made me laugh.

Business Partners

We were business partners from July 2010 until January 2011 when he withdrew his investment from the bank account.  When Victor and I became business partners, we opened a bank account together. We both had money invested in the account. We both have access to the money.  I felt safe that way.  Victor never touched the money that was in the bank account until we started pre-production of "Looking for Clara" in early 2011.

Beneficiary

I was traveling a lot back in 2010, and still am. I remember telling Victor that it would be horrible if I died and I could not help him finish his films. Around that time, I had also learned that because I had no family here in the United States, the bank would keep all my money if I died. It did not matter if I had a will or not, without an appointed POD (pay on death living in the US), my money would become the bank's, or the state's, as the banker assured me.  I then appointed Victor as my POD - "better him to keep my money if I died and not the bank" I thought. I knew I would not need the money if I were not alive.

During his deposition he acted surprised when my attorney asked him if he knew I had appointed him as my beneficiary. It is not true that he told me it was crazy.  He was pleased and said thank you. He also added, "but don't die... I want you around."

Lovers

Victor did tell me that he was not in the position to have a girlfriend - his financial situation was terrible and he did not trust women very much due to his last relationship. There was no misunderstanding there. So we did not label ourselves as "boyfriend-girlfriend."

However, he would say one thing and do another. He would say he loved me as a friend and five minutes later he would be taking me to bed and would be telling me how much he loved me... that we would build a production company and would always be together.

We were best friends, business partners and lovers.  In late December 2010, we had a conversation about our relationship. He said, "we cannot have sex anymore." I asked why. He replied, "because it is confusing you."  "Confusing me?" I replied - "I am not confused. I know where I stand in this relationship."  He then added... "then I am the one who is confused."

I respected how he felt. Although we decided not to have sex anymore, we did that day. I thought it would be the last time. I even cried in his arms while telling him that I would miss the closeness and intimacy we had developed. He held me and told me it was for the better.

I was ok with that decision. Victor and I still had a very strong friendship. I thought that we could continue developing the friendship and business relationship. I even wrote to him a long letter letting him know that our friendship would not change and I would still support his film projects.

Just a week later, Victor started kissing me and bringing me closer to him. He wanted sex. I asked him, "are you sure??" He said "yes." I remember asking him for two reasons.  First- we had decided not to be intimate anymore. And second - he was still hurting from a cracked rib.  We did not discuss the status of our relationship or intimacy after that incident. We resumed our sexual relationship.

Status of Film Projects

In early January 2011, we were not working on any film project. We did not have enough funds. It was not until February 2011, when I sold my condominium in Minnesota, that we could think of actually making a movie. I became the sole financier of "Looking for Clarissa" (formerly "Looking for Clara") and that is when our relationship took a sharp turn.

Please read "Our Relationship - The Trevino Version - PART 2""

See Text Messages Below.

Our Relationship - The Alfieri Version

Update as of 10-15-2018 -- The case has been dismissed by both parties.  As we have agreed to move forward, the dismissed case will remain confidential.

Alfieri's Original Version

The following excerpts are from Victor's complaint. What is alleged in his complaint tells the story of our relationship according to him.

"In becoming involved in the production of Bond, TREVINO made every effort to maximize the level of personal contact between herself and ALFIERI. Thus, in addition to wanting to invest in the production, TREVINO offered to edit the Arturo Bond screenplay and be ALFIERI's personal assistant. TREVINO also insisted on acting as the bookkeeper for BONDOLINI. At TREVINO's insistence, ALFIERI gave TREVINO access to the BONDOLINI account into which TREVINO's investment funds were deposited. From June of 2010, ALFIERI also gave TREVINO access to his telephone; his computer and his email account. However, the-volume of increasingly flirtatious messages and telephone calls also grew prompting ALFIERI to remind TREVINO that although they were friends, their relationship was primarily a business relationship."  

"Once on set, TREVlNO resumed her attempts to become physically involved with ALFIERI, hugging him and rubbing his back even in the presence of ALFIERI's mother. Once again, ALFIERI had to ask TREVlNO to curtail her flirtatious behavior. At that point, it became apparent to ALFIERI that TREVlNO was intent on having a sexual relationship with him." 

"While on set, TREVlNO also became involved with the actors and their various intrigues, both on set and on internet social sites. This made ALFIERI's management of the Production and the actors much more difficult." 

"Once ALFIERI returned from Italy, TREVlNO was relentless in her attempts to see him insisting that they meet for various reasons including obtaining records in order to do the bookkeeping. However, she also made it clear in her email messages that she was in love with him and wanted a "personal" relationship rather than just a professional relationship."  

"Given TREVlNO's past overtures, ALFIERI was very hesitant about meeting her alone. ... However, after ALFIERI complained about TREVINO's romantic advances, on June 17, 2011,TREVINO wrote him an email in which she acknowledged that ALFIERI did not requite her romantic desires and assured him that those desires had passed..."  

"Nonetheless, ALFIERI did not want to meet TREVINO in private and therefore agreed to meet her at a coffee shop..." 

"At his manager's urging, ALFIERI did, however, agree to meet TREVINO for lunch on her birthday on July 21,2011. After they had finished their lunch and were standing in the restaurant, parking lot, TREVINO grabbed hold of ALFIERI and tried to kiss him. Without letting him go, she asked him to have sex with her, stating that they both needed to 'release some stress.' When he refused, she asked that he at least email her a picture of his 'c--k' which she could masturbate to. ALFIERI was embarrassed by the scene they were making in public, and so to put an end to it, agreed to send her a picture. Later that evening TREVINO texted him demanding the photograph. In response ALFIERI emailed her a link to a photograph of a dildo for sale on Hustler's website. TREVINO's email response was that she would rather have ALFIERI's 'live' organ."  

"After these occurrences which had taken place despite TREVINO's assurances that her amorous intentions had passed; ALFIERI. was resolute in his intention not to again meet with TREVINO alone. When she urged him to meet with her for the 'accounting,' he responded that he wanted to go over the budget and expenditures with her in the presence of his attorney."  

"When TREVINO realized that there would be no meeting alone with ALFIERI, her interest in 'bookkeeping' vanished and she was suddenly too busy to meet with ALFIERI and his attorney. She was not, however, too busy to attempt to organize something for ALFIERI's 40th birthday (July 30th). She initially contacted ALFIERI's manager for that purpose, falsely stating that ALFIERI's mother had asked her to organize something for his birthday. No one in fact had asked her to do anything of the kind. Ultimately, however, ALFIERI told TREVINO that he did not wish to spend his birthday with her."  

"Apparently, finally realizing that her fantasy of a sexual relationship with ALFIERI would never be realized, TREVINO became overtly hostile to ALFIERI and to his conduct of the Production. Asserting that ALFIERI had misled her regarding her true powers as 'Executive Producer,' on August 9" 3,2011, TREVINO announced in an email message to ALFIERI, his manager and his attorney that she was taking over the Production and that, as Executive Producer, she would thenceforth have the final word. Apparently realizing that her obsession with ALFIERI had become obvious to all around her, and hoping to appear as being the injured party, TREVINO went on to send another email to ALFIERI, his attorney and his manager falsely stating that she had, in fact, had a sexual relationship with ALFIERI for more than a year." 

"Realizing that TREVINO's obsession with him had reached a crescendo and that she was now out to wreck both his reputation and the production of Clara, ALFIERI removed TREVINO's access to BONDOLINI's remaining funds by transferring those funds to a BONDOLINI account to which TREVINO had no access."   

"Since that time, TREVINO has falsely represented to everyone connected with the Production that ALFIERI stole money from her. TREVINO has also repeated to others the misrepresentation that she had engaged in a sexual relationship with ALFIERI. TREVINO has made these misrepresentations to others both orally and in writing."  

"TREVINO drafted an email addressed to ALFIERI's mother wherein she repeated her misrepresentation that she had a sexual relationship with ALFIERI, repeated her misrepresentation that ALFIERI had stolen her money and indicated that she was reporting him to the police. TREVINO had the message translated into Italian and on August 4, 2011, she emailed the message to ALFIERI's mother. When ALFIERI's mother could not thereafter reach ALFIERI by telephone, as a result of her panic, she suffered a physical condition which required her hospitalization."

--- From Alfieri's Complaint 

Summary of Alfieri's First Version of How the Relationship Developed

• Fan (false)
• Personal Assistant (false)
• Investor/Financier (true)
• Stalker (false)
• Hostile Slanderer (false)
• The Enemy (according to him... true)

Second Version - The Deposition

By the time Victor was deposed on August 16, 2012, he had already had the opportunity to review proof of my allegations against him that contradicted the previous story he told in his original complaint.

Watch the following video. It summarizes his second version of how our relationship developed.

So.... does his story make sense????

• Fan - He did not say I was a fan but he did say that he signed several pictures and "cover" movies??? Maybe he meant covers of  DVD cases? He did give me an autographed picture for my niece and another one for me. This happened six months after we had become close friends and lovers. He knows that I was never his fan. I would joke about it by saying that I wanted his autograph anyway. This became an inside joke for us.

• Amnesia - It is strange that Victor suddenly forgot everything during his deposition. It really was as if he had just gotten amnesia. Roger Muse, his attorney probably instructed him to say he did not remember instead of lying. He clearly overdid it. It was obvious that Victor was lying about not remembering because he was laughing as he was saying "I don't remember."

• Assistance for Back Pain - He did remember this specific event - his back injury. I did offer to help him when we were chatting on facebook. When we met in person, he did not expect me to do anything for his back pain. 

• Amnesia - During his deposition he could not remember what happened when we met again in early June, 2010. Please go to "How We Met" to see what happened during that meeting in June. He gets amnesia again up to the point when, according to him,  I "insist" on becoming an investor and his personal assistant.  

• Personal Assistant - We were already friends and lovers when I jokingly said that I would be his personal assistant. I was NEVER his personal assistant. Why would I?  I was the one with the Engineering degree, the Master's in Business Administration, the owner and CEO of a business. Plus, I was the "financier" of his projects???? Does that make sense... to be his personal assistant?  He stated that I had access to his phone, email account, personal computer... as he said, I had access "at everything." Read post "Premeditation".

• Investor/Financier - It is true that I became an investor. At first he was also an investor - we were basically business partners.  Then he pulled all his money out leaving me as the sole "financier" of the movie project. He knows that the MAIN reason I became an investor is because he and I were romantically involved and because I loved him. I told him several times, in person and in writing (text messages, emails and letters).

• Close Friend - This is probably the only thing he said that was truthful. I was a very good friend to him. I was always there for him.... "no matter what," as he, himself said.

I only agree with two points in this second version. I was indeed the investor/financier of Victor's project(s) and a close friend.

In both versions, he claimed that I was his personal assistant and had access to his phone, email and computer. He claimed I answered his phone and used his personal computer. Why would he allow me access to all that after the "obsessive sexual harassment" started? He stated, under oath, that I had access to his phone until June 17, 2011, until the break-up or conflict, as he called it. Read the post "premeditation" to learn WHY he claimed I was his personal assistant. There is a BIG reason why he said that. "Premeditation will be published in a few days.

During his deposition he got very defensive when he was asked about the tattoo close to his lower pelvis. He claimed that there are pictures all over facebook in his underwear. I, myself never saw those pictures. The tattoos I was referring to cannot be seen if he's dressed (even in underwear). He knew what I was talking about and got upset to be confronted. Did you also notice that he mentioned pictures of a gladiator type movie he shot where you can see his tattoos??? Isn't that ridiculous??? Gladiators did NOT have tattoos. Actually, all his tattoos were covered for that movie.

He admits that we were very close friends, that I was always there for him, that I took him to the hospital when he cracked a rib. So, if he considered me such a good friend, why would he claim in his written complaint that I was sexually harassing him??? Wouldn't close friends have a conversation about this???  Would anyone treat a "close" friend the way he treated me????

All of these questions will be answered in my next post, "Our Relationship - The Trevino Version - PART 1" And don't forget to read Part 2 as well.

Disclaimer – As of October 15, 2018, all legal issues have been resolved. This resolution was reached during arbitration. There are no pending issues related to fraud or theft. The resolution was mutually agreeable. There will be no more posts written about this story.

How We Met

Update as of 10-15-2018 -- The case has been dismissed by both parties.  As we have agreed to move forward, the dismissed case will remain confidential.

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Victor Alfieri's Version of How We Met

Victor has given different versions of how we met and about our relationship. His first attempt to give an official version of how we met was through his complaint filed against me.

Version 1

• I was his fan. (false)
• I contacted him via Tagged social website mid 2009. (true)
• We met in person. He gave me his signature. (false)
• Alfieri did not read or respond to my persistent messages. (false)
• I contacted him again, via Tagged, in May 2010. (false)
• I expressed interest in his screenwriting and asked to be allowed to read the Bond screenplay. (true)
• Alfieri and I met again in person starting June 2010. (true)

"TREVINO was a fan of ALFIERl. Initially TREVINO contacted ALFIERl in approximately mi-2009 through ALFIERl's page on the Tagged social website. About that time, ALFIERl met TREVINO in person and gave her his signature. ALFIERl initially exchanged a few messages with TREVINO, but even after he stopped responding, TREVINO persistently sent him messages on Skype. From September of 2009 through May of 2010, TREVINO sent ALFIERl from two to three messages per month, asking personal questions, referring to him as "darling," and sending him "kisses." ALFIERl did not read the messages or respond to them."

"In an attempt to regain ALFIERl's attention, in May of 2010, TREVINO again contacted ALFIERl via Tagged. TREVINO expressed interest in ALFIERl's screenwriting and asked that she be allowed to read the Bond screenplay. Seeing an opportunity to involve herself in ALFIERl's life, upon reading the screenplay, TREVINO immediately indicated that she wanted to invest in the production."

"ALFIERI met TREVINO in person again starting in June of 2010."

--- From Original Complaint 

After reading my cross-complaint and getting discovery from me, he changed his version. He could not blatantly lie knowing there was proof, so he became vague and evasive. This is what he stated during his deposition on August 16, 2012.

Version 2

• I initiated contact with him via Tagged and later via Facebook. 
• He claimed that he did not remember how our communication started. 
• He did not remember the tone of our conversations. 
• He did not remember ever chatting with me on facebook. 
• He did not remember much of our contact before June 2010 except for the reason why we met in person the very first time (watch video below).

I personally believe that Roger Muse, his attorney, instructed him to say that he "did not remember" instead of lying. Unfortunately, Victor overused the "I don't remember" response. Even Mr. Muse had to intervene and tell him to answer in general terms.

Watch the video below (this video is also in the post "Amnesia")

In this Version 2, he did not say I was his fan. He did not claim that he did not reply to my communication via instant messages, facebook or text messaging. He simply had forgotten EVERYTHING.

My Version of How We Met

I did not know Victor Alfieri was an actor and had never seen any of his shows or movies. I was clearly never a fan. I did tell him I was his fan after we met in person. What I meant was that I was HIS fan not necessarily a fan of his acting, as I had never watched any of his work.

I met Victor Alfieri, on “Tagged”  but never really had contact with him there. His “Tagged” name was/is “Victor Alfieri is on Facebook now”. So I became his friend on facebook and that is how we started to have contact (through instant messaging/chatting). He and I had brief chats on facebook during the summer of 2009 when he was vacationing in Rome. The truth is that I was very new at facebook and had only a few contacts. So every time he was logged in, I would see his name and say hello. He ALWAYS replied to my IM’s on facebook. His responses were always short and polite.  I did not think much of our new “friendship” and was ok with the short IM’s we would exchange once in a while.

On September 1, 2009, he was the one who initiated the “chatting” on facebook. At the time, I was in Minnesota working on my computer and clearly remember being on the phone with my best friend April (who had been the one who introduced us on “Tagged”). 

Victor was IM’ing me and wanted to continue chatting. He had just come back from Rome. He invited me to come over his house. 

He gave me his phone number and asked me to call him (I am not blurring it because that number is now disconnected). I called him and then he immediately wanted to see me on skype. We talked on skype for about an hour and agreed to talk on the phone and connect via skype the next day. 

Victor texted me, called me and skyped me on Sept 2^nd and Sept 3^rd. He wanted to meet me in person. I told him I was coming back to LA around 9:30 pm on the 4^th.  He requested to see me in my underwear. I felt uncomfortable and tried to avoid the skype call.  We did talk via skype. He was actually very nice and funny. I felt more comfortable with him and our conversations. We agreed to meet when I came back to town.

The first time we met in person was on September 4^nd, at his home in West Hollywood. We talked for a couple of hours. At this point, we have been speaking everyday. We were comfortable with each other.  Although I was not planning on it, we did have intercourse that night.  We exchanged messages after our encounter so we could meet again.

We exchanged some messages after our encounter trying to figure out when to meet again. About a week later, I felt uncomfortable with the situation, as it had been clearly a “one night stand” – a thing that is not my style or anything I had ever done. Because of how uncomfortable I felt thinking that he probably felt the same  - like I also had “used” him sexually, I wrote him an email on facebook. He replied to it (please see facebook messages at the end of this post).

From September 2009 to May 2010, our communication consisted of brief text messages or emails.  Because we had had that sexual encounter, we addressed each other as “baby” and “darling”. He would sign off with “kisses”, and so would I. He also invited me to come see him late at night (see facebook messages).

I never contacted him again via “Tagged”. I had his phone number and skype account. I would text him or email him on facebook. In late May 2010, Alfieri told me that he was looking for investors for his independent film. The budget was low and I offered to help him find investors. I explained to him if his film project was aligned with “Transformational Entertainment”, I might be able to connect him with someone. He said that he was looking for $5,000 to 10,000. I thought it was actually low, and offered to invest if I liked the script.

I did meet Afieri in person again in the evening of June 3^th, 2010. Alfieri opened the door wearing no shirt, only a towel. We talked about his script for about 15 minutes. He lowered the towel and asked me if he was in better shape than he was when we were together 9 months ago.

He then said he had to get ready for his next meeting and would be getting dressed. He went to his bedroom. When he came back to the living room, he had removed the towel and was completely naked.  I laughed and told him that we both had to go and there was no time. He stood in front of me naked and said: “touch me”. We had sex that day.

After that day, Victor and I communicated daily via, telephone, text messaging, email or skype. I would say, our relationship officially started on June 3rd, 2010. We communicated every single day until our break-up in June 2011.

FACEBOOK MESSAGES below.

Amnesia

  

Selective Memory?

This video was made for entertainment purposes only

Update as of 10-15-2018 -- The case has been dismissed by both parties.  As we have agreed to move forward, the dismissed case will remain confidential.

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During his deposition on August 16, 2012, Victor seemed to have forgotten how we actually met, started talking and how got to know each other. He forgot how flirtatious he was with me from the beginning. He even forgot that we were "intimate" for a year - at least that is what he testified under oath. He claimed that he and I never had a romantic or sexual relationship.

Even when he was shown facebook chats, emails and text messages, he assured that he did not remember writing or saying those things to me.

The following video contains some of his testimony under oath.

Disclaimer – As of October 15, 2018, all legal issues have been resolved. This resolution was reached during arbitration. There are no pending issues related to fraud or theft. The resolution was mutually agreeable. There will be no more posts written about this story.