Update as of 10-15-2018 -- The case has been dismissed by both parties. As we have agreed to move forward, the dismissed case will remain confidential.
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Victor Alfieri's Version of How We Met
Victor has given different versions of how we met and about our relationship. His first attempt to give an official version of how we met was through his complaint filed against me.Version 1
- I was his fan. (false)
- I contacted him via Tagged social website mid 2009. (true)
- We met in person. He gave me his signature. (false)
- Alfieri did not read or respond to my persistent messages. (false)
- I contacted him again, via Tagged, in May 2010. (false)
- I expressed interest in his screenwriting and asked to be allowed to read the Bond screenplay. (true)
- Alfieri and I met again in person starting June 2010. (true)
"TREVINO was a fan of ALFIERl. Initially TREVINO contacted ALFIERl in approximately mi-2009 through ALFIERl's page on the Tagged social website. About that time, ALFIERl met TREVINO in person and gave her his signature. ALFIERl initially exchanged a few messages with TREVINO, but even after he stopped responding, TREVINO persistently sent him messages on Skype. From September of 2009 through May of 2010, TREVINO sent ALFIERl from two to three messages per month, asking personal questions, referring to him as "darling," and sending him "kisses." ALFIERl did not read the messages or respond to them."
"In an attempt to regain ALFIERl's attention, in May of 2010, TREVINO again contacted ALFIERl via Tagged. TREVINO expressed interest in ALFIERl's screenwriting and asked that she be allowed to read the Bond screenplay. Seeing an opportunity to involve herself in ALFIERl's life, upon reading the screenplay, TREVINO immediately indicated that she wanted to invest in the production."
"ALFIERI met TREVINO in person again starting in June of 2010."
--- From Original Complaint
After reading my cross-complaint and getting discovery from me, he changed his version. He could not blatantly lie knowing there was proof, so he became vague and evasive. This is what he stated during his deposition on August 16, 2012.
Version 2
- I initiated contact with him via Tagged and later via Facebook.
- He claimed that he did not remember how our communication started.
- He did not remember the tone of our conversations.
- He did not remember ever chatting with me on facebook.
- He did not remember much of our contact before June 2010 except for the reason why we met in person the very first time (watch video below).
I personally believe that Roger Muse, his attorney, instructed him to say that he "did not remember" instead of lying. Unfortunately, Victor overused the "I don't remember" response. Even Mr. Muse had to intervene and tell him to answer in general terms.
Watch the video below (this video is also in the post "Amnesia")
In this Version 2, he did not say I was his fan. He did not claim that he did not reply to my communication via instant messages, facebook or text messaging. He simply had forgotten EVERYTHING.
My Version of How We Met
I did not know Victor Alfieri was an actor and had never seen any of his shows or movies. I was clearly never a fan. I did tell him I was his fan after we met in person. What I meant was that I was HIS fan not necessarily a fan of his acting, as I had never watched any of his work.
I met
Victor Alfieri, on “Tagged”
but never really had contact with him there. His “Tagged” name
was/is “Victor Alfieri is on Facebook now”. So I became his friend on
facebook and that is how we started to have contact (through instant
messaging/chatting). He and I had brief chats on facebook during the
summer of 2009 when he was vacationing in Rome. The truth is that I was
very new at facebook and had only a few contacts. So every time he was
logged in, I would see his name and say hello. He ALWAYS replied to my
IM’s on facebook. His responses were always short and polite. I did not think much of our new
“friendship” and was ok with the short IM’s we would exchange once in a
while.
On
September 1, 2009, he was the one who initiated the “chatting” on facebook.
At the time, I was in Minnesota working on my computer and clearly
remember being on the phone with my best friend April (who had been the
one who introduced us on “Tagged”). 
Victor was IM’ing me and wanted to continue
chatting. He had just come back from Rome. He invited me to come over his
house.
He gave me
his phone number and asked me to call him (I am not blurring it because that number is now disconnected). I called him and then he
immediately wanted to see me on skype. We talked on skype for about an
hour and agreed to talk on the phone and connect via skype the next day.
The first time we met in person was on September 4nd, at his home in West Hollywood. We talked for a couple of hours. At this point, we have been speaking everyday. We were comfortable with each other. Although I was not planning on it, we did have intercourse that night. We exchanged messages after our encounter so we could meet again.
We exchanged some messages after our encounter trying to figure out when to meet again. About a week later, I felt uncomfortable with the situation, as it had been clearly a “one night stand” – a thing that is not my style or anything I had ever done. Because of how uncomfortable I felt thinking that he probably felt the same - like I also had “used” him sexually, I wrote him an email on facebook. He replied to it (please see facebook messages at the end of this post).
From September 2009 to May 2010, our communication consisted of brief text messages or emails. Because we had had that sexual encounter, we addressed each other as “baby” and “darling”. He would sign off with “kisses”, and so would I. He also invited me to come see him late at night (see facebook messages).
I never contacted him again via “Tagged”. I had his phone number and skype account. I would text him or email him on facebook. In late May 2010, Alfieri told me that he was looking for investors for his independent film. The budget was low and I offered to help him find investors. I explained to him if his film project was aligned with “Transformational Entertainment”, I might be able to connect him with someone. He said that he was looking for $5,000 to 10,000. I thought it was actually low, and offered to invest if I liked the script.
He then said he had to get ready for his next meeting and would be getting dressed. He went to his bedroom. When he came back to the living room, he had removed the towel and was completely naked. I laughed and told him that we both had to go and there was no time. He stood in front of me naked and said: “touch me”. We had sex that day.
After that day, Victor and I communicated daily via, telephone, text messaging, email or skype. I would say, our relationship officially started on June 3rd, 2010. We communicated every single day until our break-up in June 2011.
FACEBOOK MESSAGES below.
Facebook messages from September 2009 to April 2010
September 9, 2009
Dear Victor,
I want to apologize to you. Read on and you will understand what I mean.
I just moved to Los Angeles in June and it has been a tough adjustment for me. Datinghas been the worst experience I have ever had. It seems that all men want is sex andthey are not a bit interested in a friendship at all. I have never felt so objectified until I moved here.I did the same thing to you. And that is why I want to apologize. You did not push anything, I was the one who initiated it. I am sorry I put you in that position. I know how bad it feels.
I don't know if it would make any difference, but you are only the second guy I have been with since I moved here. So, it is not that I am going around meeting men to "hook up" with. That is just not my style. I have respect for myself and for others.
I know you are probably used to having women all over you all the time. You are truly a gorgeous man - every woman's fantasy. I also think that those short encounters are probably not fulfilling for you and must leave you empty. We are all looking for a deeper connection with a special soul that will make us feel whole and balanced.
As I told you in my text, I like you and I would love to be a true friend to you. And believe me, I am Latin and know how to be an unconditional friend. Why am I saying this to you now? Because it feels like the right thing to do and I feel it in my heart.
Victor, please do not think that I am trying to contact you only because I want to go to bed with you. If it never happens again, it's ok. I respect whatever you wish. I want to help you if I can now that you are going through a difficult time.
I understand what you are going through, I had a nasty divorce that cost me over $250,000 and I was only married for 5 months! The house we had is going on foreclosure soon because I cannot pay it. I know it will ruin my credit. But it is just my credit.
As to your health, your back has probably gotten worse with all the stress in your life. Have you seen a doctor? Have you tried alternative medicine? chiropractic? energy healers? meditation? I know a lot of people that do this type of work.
I would love to help you. I really mean it.
Besos
Adriana
September 10, 2009
Victor Alfieri
you are so sweet Adriana, but you think too much, i really am a real person and not looking to just sleep around, but it takes time to become friends and not just couple of days, i don t talk to my friends every day(even people that i know for 25 years) we know we are there for each other and we talk once in a while. On top of it I am a loner and I don t like to write text or computer messages. What I am going through right now it's a lot and like I said before there is nothing you can do, if i needed help from you trust me I am not shy..i d ask you, so please let s keep in touch but careful don t push it too hard, cause you might provoce the opposite effect on people..meaning you can lose friends instead of making them...good night V
September 10, 2009
Adriana L. Trevino
Ok, just a very short note. You are TOTALLY right! I think too much sometimes. And it's true about good old friends or family who we don't see or talk to all the time. I love my sister and parents and I don't talk to them everyday.
Ok, darling, please take care and feel better. I do hope things get better for you. I send you a hug : )
Adriana
September 10, 2009
Victor Alfieri
ok...kisses
December 29, 2009
Adriana L. Trevino
holidays
Are you in Italy? Just wanted to say hello.
Hey, did you see AVATAR? it is the most amazing movie I have seen.I am sure you saw it already.
Have a wonderful rest of the year and may the new year be full of blessings for you!
December 29, 2009
Victor Alfieri
Hey baby happy holidays, yes I ve been out of town..how r u?
December 30, 2009
Adriana L. Trevino
I am doing great. I just came back from Mexico. I saw Angels and Demons. I loved the movie. You were right. Rome looks beautiful! It's incredible what they did recreating the Vatican in that lot/studio and with green screens.
So, I bet you are in Canada filming the other movie.
Good luck in everything you do darling. I will always be your fan.
muchos besos.
March 21, 2010
Adriana L. Trevino
hello
Dear Victor,
I do understand you are busy. I just want you to know that I think of you with a smile on my face and always send light and good energy your way..... lots of happiness and success.Besos
Adriana
March 21, 2010
Victor Alfieri
thank you so much Adriana
April 6, 2010
Adriana L. Trevino
Hi Victor,
Are you in town? I have a friend visiting from Mexico. I told her I was getting your autograph. Do you have any time to meet? Even if it is for 15 minutes at a coffee shop.
Let me know darling.... Take care
Besos
Adriana
April 6, 2010
Victor Alfieri
is she hot like you>? threesome aahahaha..sure..just playing with you...i am working all week when does she leave?
April 6, 2010
Adriana L. Trevino
There is nobody as hot as me (haha).... She leaves Saturday night. She does not believe I actually know you.... She needs some proof and I would love to see you!
Adriana
April 6, 2010
Victor Alfieri
ahahhah..that will cost you you know...we ll see hopefully...i get home pretty late these days so i don t know
will she be coming with you? cause I know you could come over late but i don t know about your friend
April 6, 2010
Adriana L. Trevino
Well, I will be selfish.... I can come see you (even if it's late), I will take a picture of me with you... and that will be proof that I actually met with you (lol)...
April 6, 2010
Victor Alfieri
ahahhaha
April 6, 2010
Adriana L. Trevino
Don't worry. I know how it is to be tired. I pushed myself, and worked late hours last weeks... I paid the price. I was sick for over a week. I started feeling better today.... My friend went to Disneyland today. I stayed home doing homework (graduate school). Any night is ok with me (us) if you are not too tired. Otherwise, I will come and pay my price another day/night (lol).
Disclaimer – As of
October 15, 2018, all legal issues have been resolved. This resolution was
reached during arbitration. There are no pending issues related to fraud or
theft. The resolution was mutually agreeable. There will be no more posts
written about this story.
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