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Sunday, April 5, 2015

The Ripple Effect


Update as of 10-15-2018 -- The case has been dismissed by both parties.  As we have agreed to move forward, the dismissed case will remain confidential.

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Around mid-September 2014, I received a phone call at home. I rarely answer my home phone because most of the calls are from telemarketers. This time I checked the caller id display and realized the call was from a local Los Angeles number. I decided to pick up, "Hello?" "Could I speak with Adriana Trevino?" asked the voice on the other end of the phone. "This is she," I replied. "I read your webpage," he said. "You mean, my blog?" I clarified.

He said he had read some of my posts and felt really bad for what Victor Alfieri had done to me. I told him that I was okay and he should not feel bad for me. He also told me that his attorney had found some of my YouTube videos and my blog on line. Attorney? I asked him if I had mentioned him on any of my posts and offered to remove his name. He then told me that Victor Alfieri had accused him of hitting him with a brush and that there was a trial scheduled.

He told me his name. For now, I will only use his initials, CV. At this point I knew who he was and what he was talking about. In January 2014, TMZ published " 'Bold & Beautiful' Star - I Was Attacked With a Hairbrush," and " Bold & Beautiful Star GETS BRUSH OFF FROM JUDGE." Victor claimed that CV had beat him in the face, had relentlessly harassed him and had threatened to put him in the hospital.  The judge granted Victor a restraining order that would keep CV at least 3 yards away from Victor - not farther, as they lived in the same building.  That is why, just as a way to poke fun at the ridiculous allegations made by Alfieri I served him court papers with a hairbrush so he could "protect" himself from future attacks. Please read The Service to learn how Victor got served and to watch the video "A Brush With the LAW."

CV told me that things did not happen the way Victor had said they did.  I was not surprised when I heard that. I know how Victor can twist the truth and use the court system to his advantage while making sure that his delusional claims get as much publicity as possible. Now that I look at Victor's allegations against CV, it is clear that Victor follows a pattern.

According to Victor Alfieri...

         CV                                                            Me
Attacked him with a brush                     Attacked him with slander
Relentlessly harassed him                      Relentlessly SEXUALLY harassed him
Threatened to put him in hospital          Threatened to call the FBI and put him in jail forever

Then, what did Victor do (or continues to do) against CV and me?

          CV's case                                                 My case
Gave false statements to authorities       Made false allegations in court papers
Got police and courts involved              Got courts and attorneys involved
Leaked the news to the media                Leaked the news to the media
Refuses to tell the truth                          Refuses to tell the truth

It is a fact that Victor Alfieri made up crazy stories about me. His slanderous allegations, which were published all over the internet, damaged my reputation and have cost me hundreds of thousands of dollars in business.  CV asked me if I would be willing to testify in his trial. My testimony would be solely as to Victor Alfieri's character, not to what actually took place during the "alleged" incident. I would simply testify about Victor's manipulative and dishonest behavior. I would testify how Victor has used the justice system and the media to attack me and try to ruin my reputation. He clearly wanted to intimidate me and "persuade" me into walking away from my investment.

So... would I be willing to testify?  Of course I would. I agreed to become a witness even before CV told me his side of the story. I told CV that I knew of another person who would certainly make a great witness. Victor's crazy fabricated stories about this person made it all the way to the court docket as well.  As I stated before, Victor has a pattern -- he claims to be victimized by somebody who has "attacked" or harassed him because that person is probably "obsessed" with him. Then he uses law enforcement and/or court resources to threaten and intimidate this "alleged" attacker, not without getting enough media coverage in the process.

CV and I met in person and talked on the phone several times. As we shared our stories, we could not help but notice so many similarities. He was born and raised in Minnesota. I lived in Minnesota for the last 20 years. We even had friends in common! We developed a friendship quickly.

CV had a scheduled pretrial hearing on Monday March 30th. I told him I would go to court with him. But I did not go to court with CV. Why? Because that hearing did not take place.  It was not because Victor Alfieri decided to tell the truth and get the charges dropped but because CV did not make it to that hearing. He passed away on February 19, 2015. Please read my post Making Peace to learn more about what really happened and how his passing is directly connected to all these events.

Most of us are familiar with the term "Ripple Effect."  Merriam-Webster defines it as a situation in which one event causes a series of other events to happen. And what about "The Butterfly Effect"? -- the scientific theory that one single occurrence, no matter how small, can forever change the course of the universe.

If even the smallest occurrence can have an impact somewhere on the other side of the world, then we can logically conclude that more significant events would for sure change the course of the universe.  What Victor Alfieri has done to me and others is no small thing. His actions have undoubtedly affected our lives -- and the universe, for that matter.

It is possible that Victor finds his creative "tales" very clever and even amusing. However, all actions carry consequences. You cannot go around making false accusations and defaming others and expect no consequences. You will either encounter someone who will fight back or someone who will be unfairly punished. I am fortunately someone who decided not to be a victim. I fought back and continue fighting for justice.  This does not mean that I am in this battle for the simple reason of  fighting. I have always been open to letting this go if Victor were to come clean and tell the truth. It is that simple.

CV, on the other hand, was someone who was unfairly punished and suffered the consequences of Victor's malicious and irresponsible actions.  Please read Making Peace. What is shocking to me is that there are still so many people around Victor that see what he does and opt to say or do nothing about it. It is like watching an injured person lying in the middle of the road while riding in the car with a reckless crazy driver who deliberately speeds up to run this injured person over. It is true you are not the driver. But you are right there. You know this fatality is about to happen and choose to stay quiet and do nothing. Does that make you an accomplice?.... You tell me.

Even the smallest occurrence will create an endless ripple.  Everything we do impacts the whole world. Our actions, thoughts and intentions will touch every single human being on this planet. Before we move forward, let's choose to walk on a path built on honesty and integrity. Before we open our mouth, let's choose our words wisely and compassionately. And let's not forget that everything starts with thoughts, with intention. If what we put out in the universe is generosity, gratitude, kindness and love, then that is the ripple that we are sending out to the rest of the world -- and that is also what will eventually come back to us.





Disclaimer – As of October 15, 2018, all legal issues have been resolved. This resolution was reached during arbitration. There are no pending issues related to fraud or theft. The resolution was mutually agreeable. There will be no more posts written about this story.







Friday, January 2, 2015

Index of Posts



Index of Posts published in 2019 and forward.  For older posts, please scroll down.

1. Looking for My Mother --  And the quest continues.


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Update as of 10-15-2018 -- The Trevino vs. Alfieri case has been dismissed by both parties.  As we have agreed to move forward, the dismissed case will remain confidential.

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While filming in Rome
I have been told by many readers that it is difficult to find older posts. The search tool is not as effective. So that is why I decided to write this specific post - a post that will make it easier to interact with this blog.

The following are the posts which are part of this blog. They are listed chronologically, by date of release, and some include a very brief description. Just click on the title and you will be taken to that specific post.


  1. Scandal, Lawsuit and... Settlement? - Introduction to this blog. It includes pictures and web links.
  2. Telling the Truth - Portions of the transcription of my deposition.
  3. Dismissal of My Lawsuit - Why did I dismiss it?
  4. Was I a Victim of Fraud? - Originally written on January 6, 2013 and updated April 14, 2013. Was fraud committed?
  5. Attorneys, Litigation and the Legal System - Attorneys and the legal system... another saga in itself.
  6. Why Did Victor Alfieri Sue Me? - Alfieri himself gives the reasons he sued during his deposition. This blog includes a video clip of the deposition and Alfieri's complaint against me.
  7. What Truly Prompted the Lawsuit - This post includes actual emails and text messages.
  8. Letter to Victor Alfieri's Mother - Letter to Daniela Carloni in both English and Italian.
  9. Why Did Victor Alfieri Dismiss the Lawsuit? - The real reason why he dismissed his lawsuit. It includes one video. This post also includes my original cross-complaint.
  10. Fighting Back - This post includes my Amended Cross-Complaint with details and new facts.
  11. Speaking Up - Why I decided to speak up. Includes one video.
  12. Slander, Libel and Defamation - Who slandered and defamed whom?
  13. Filming in Italy - This post includes pictures and a fun video/trailer I made for this blog/story.
  14. Sexual Harassment - Alfieri is Italian... that's the way they joke and he likes "to joke like that."
  15. Amnesia - Alfieri's selective memory... or a result of paranormal activity? This post has two videos - a trailer to the movie "Amnesia" and another video with portions of Alfieri's deposition.
  16. The Scandal - How I learned the internet scandal had started.
  17. Perception, Opinion and Judgment - How people viewed and judged the "alleged" claims.
  18. Conflict on Set - The challenges and nightmarish experience. It includes pictures of Calcata and Rome.
  19. The Wrap Party - Some fun before the unexpected war. This post has many pictures and a nice video of the wrap party.
  20. And the Award Goes to... - The Snap Awards - another fun memory from the Wrap Party. There is a video of the Snap Awards.
  21. The Break-Up - How we broke up in Italy. Were there witnesses??? Yes. And Alfieri still denies our  relationship.
  22. Paranoia and Delusion - How Alfieri became paranoid and started accusing others of betrayal and theft... As the story unfolds we learn who really betrayed and stole.
  23. Safety Violations and Abuse on Set - Was there abuse on set? Yes! I witnessed it!  This post includes excerpts of my amended cross-complaint and a video of Alfieri's deposition.
  24. Perjury - Watch a video where Alfieri, while under oath, tells lie after lie and contradicts himself. 
  25. How We Met - Alfieri seems to suffer from amnesia and does not remember much about how our relationship started. Fortunately, I do remember everything... and here's how we met. This post includes, emails, text messages and a video.
  26. The Facebook Hacker - My favorite Alfieri tale. This post includes two videos - "The Facebook Hacker" and "The Spy Who Was Not."
  27. Was I Set Up? - How Alfieri recruits Apollonia Kotero to set me up. This post includes emails, text messages and facebook chats.
  28. Press Release - Why did I agree to a press release? The Cheaterville article. New Cheaterville post Looks Could Be Deceiving
  29. Sexual Addiction - The TMZ article and my version of what truly happened.
  30. How the Lawsuit Against Me Was Financed - Who paid the attorney to sue me? Read this post and find out. This post includes proof.
  31. Last Communication with Alfieri - Emails that lead to the writing of this blog.
  32. Our Relationship - the Alfieri Version - Alfieri gives one version in his complaint and something very different during his deposition. This post includes a video of his deposition... once again, sometimes suffering amnesia and other times contradicting himself.
  33. Our Relationship - The Trevino Version - PART 1 - How our relationship started and evolved. This post includes multiple text messages between us.
  34. Letters to Victor - Actual letters I wrote and sent to Alfieri. He was aware of how I felt. I never lied to him.
  35. Our Relationship - The Trevino Version - PART 2 - Pre-production, filming, Victor's paranoia, the final break-up. Actual text messages and emails.
  36. Friends with Benefits - The text messages tell the story and facts.
  37. Premeditation - My second favorite Alfieri tale.  Alfieri did not accept any responsibility for the text messages or emails he wrote to me. He claimed I was his personal assistant and had access to his phone and computer.... I must have "texted" myself! Watch the video!
  38. The Facts - A list of chronological facts (not allegations or assumptions). This post also includes a video with these facts.
  39. The Top 10 Countdown - The Most Creative and Memorable Claims Made by Alfieri.  I had so much fun writing this post and making the video. It summarizes the creativity and entertainment value of Alfieri's imagination.
  40. The Loan - The real reason we made the movie - so Alfieri could save his home from foreclosure. Watch the video.
  41. Post-Production - An update on post-production.
  42. Business Networking - Alfieri's incredible business skills.
  43. To Cast and Crew - By far the most popular post. This post includes pictures and messages to almost everyone involved in the production of the film and in the Trevino story.
  44. Story in Video - The Story told through a series of videos.
  45. Suspicious Activity - Alfieri's behavior continues to be suspicious and shady.
  46. Running Amok - When the "fire" could cease, Alfieri is still fighting a battle that does not even exist.
  47. Staying in Touch - The importance of staying connected.
  48. Sunset Boulevard - Rendez Vous???
  49. Copyright Infringement - Don't I have the right to post whatever footage or pictures I own???
  50. Moving On - Becoming "whole" while "getting even."
  51. Deceit - Or simple fear of holding oneself accountable for any wrongdoing?
  52. Sharing My Story - How my telling the truth affects others' reality.
  53. Final Cut - Proof of Alfieri's great talent as a writer, director and producer.
  54. Return On Investment - There are benefits and value that might be seemingly "intangible." 
  55. Justice Will Prevail - One way or the other... what goes around comes around!
  56. Financing a Dream - Whose dream are you investing in?
  57. Personal Assistants - People We Trust - Or imaginary friends?
  58. The Official Trailer - A Movie based on True Events.
  59. Public Opinion - Freedom of Speech
  60. IMDb - Making a movie is a true group effort.
  61. ALIAS - Are you wearing a mask hiding who you truly are?
  62. The Dark Closet -  What dark secrets stay locked up in the closet?
  63. Karma -  What maintains the equilibrium of the Universe.
  64. The Deadly Hairbrush Incident - An attack that will forever change the rules of "manly" fights.
  65. Is Any Publicity GOOD Publicity? - In Showbiz... apparently so!
  66. Being Brave -  Nobody can speak up our truth but ourselves.
  67. Advocating for Justice -  Threats to take unresolved issues to arbitration?
  68. Indictment - US Department of Justice - We find justice when we least expect it.
  69. To Potential Buyers and Distributors - Important facts to consider.
  70. Social Media - A great tool to stay connected and to publicly share personal information.
  71. Standing Up for The Truth - Making a sharp turn into the legal road.
  72. Above the Law - The inherent legal system that governs humanity where we are the judge.
  73. Part II - The Trailer - A new beginning.
  74. The Service - Poking humor at the situation... and life. Video of service.
  75. Six Degrees of Separation - We are so close to one another... closer that we could ever imagine.
  76. Nowhere to Hide - The internet era makes previous walls turn into transparent glass.
  77. The Soul of the Judicial System - Or the lack of soul???
  78. From the Midwest to Hollywood - We take our home wherever we go.
  79. Guardian Angels - Do you believe in angels?
  80. First Amendment - Freedom of Speech. We all have the right to speak up.
  81. A New Beginning - A new name for my Blog... After all, this is MY story.
  82. Index of Posts - A complete list of all the posts that tell "The Trevino Story."
  83. Conviction - Prison Sentence - Facing the consequences of illegal actions.
  84. Secrets - Untold Truths - What secrets are you afraid to tell?
  85. Turning a Loss Into a Win - When you think you have lost a small battle, you could be on your way to winning a war.
  86. Trust is a choice... and it starts with ourselves, with self-trust.
  87. Lies, Negligence... or Memory Loss? A lie is a lie - no matter how small it is.
  88. The Ripple Effect - Even the smallest action will create a ripple that will reach the other side of the world.
  89. Making Peace - We must first make peace with ourselves.
  90. Split Second - Your life can be transformed or "saved" in one split second. 
  91. Bullies with a Law Degree - When that line of "protecting clients' interests" is crossed. 
  92. It's Never Too Late - Never too late to let go of the past, stop fearing the future and live fully in the present with an open heart.
  93. The Road Ahead - Walking our life path without losing sight of what is truly important.
  94. Facing Adversity with a Smile - It is all about attitude.
  95. The End of a Story - When a story ends, another one starts. They are all part of the bigger picture.
  96. Looking for My Mother - I never stopped looking for you. May you rest in peace.
  97. Victim - Stand up and speak out and you will no longer be a "victim."


Disclaimer – As of October 15, 2018, all legal issues (Trevino vs. Alfieri case) have been resolved. This resolution was reached during arbitration. There are no pending issues (Trevino vs. Alfieri case) related to fraud or theft. The resolution was mutually agreeable. There will be no more posts written about this story.











Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Our Relationship - The Trevino Version - PART 2

Update as of 10-15-2018 -- The case has been dismissed by both parties.  As we have agreed to move forward, the dismissed case will remain confidential.



Late January 2011

I never expected our relationship to take the turn it took. As soon as we decided to make the film "Looking for Clarissa" (formerly "Looking for Clara"), our relationship went from, best friends and lovers to betrayal and legal battles. Although it did not happen immediately, he turned into a totally different person in only three months!

It was surprising to me how Victor's behavior started to change in early February 2011. He became very focused. It was evident that he wanted to make a film. He saw it as his only way out of his desperate financial situation. He had to do something so he would not lose his home in California.  As soon as I sold my condominium in early February, he knew I had the money to produce the movie and help him save his home.

Victor became even more sexual with me. He wanted to have sex every single time we met. Sometimes he would call me to come over just for that reason.  I remember one specific time, he said "can you come over now?" I said, "right now?" He replied, "yes, right now! I need a ride." I said, your car broke down again, you need me to take you to the mechanic?" He said, "no, I need to ride YOU." I found that funny. He would always say that he rode me instead of me riding him... that made me laugh every time. 

Now when I think why he was demanding sex more often, I realize that he probably wanted me closer to him to make sure he would get the money for the movie and I would not back out. Whatever it was, it does not matter anymore. He knew how much I loved him and that I would do anything for him.

First Signs of Paranoia

I first noticed Victor's paranoia when we had a problem with Rachel Kennedy, one of the original investors. She decided to pull out her investment. She accused Victor of being a manipulator and a user. I took Victor's side, of course. Because I loved him, I defended and protected him.

Rachel wrote to me:



I did tell Victor about this email that Rachel sent to me. He then demanded to see it and to see my reply to her. Please see text messages below. Victor and I had our first real fight because of this.  He did not believe I had stood up for him and defended him. I should have listened to what Rachel was communicating through her email. She was smart to get out. I, on the other hand, got deeper into it.

 This is what Victor replied:



 And then he wrote about SLANDER, something I became very familiar with after he sued me.








I asked Victor if he ever slept with Rachel. She was (and still is) a beautiful woman. I would have understood if he said yes. In fact, I expected him to admit it. However, he denied it and said that he had not and would NEVER have sex with her. Then he started comparing her to me, telling me I was beautiful and natural... and she was not.  I am an intuitive woman. And I am not dumb. I knew there was more than what Victor wanted to admit.  I opted to not ask anymore.

After Victor took my money, right before he sued me, I met with Rachel and asked her if she ever slept with him. She immediately said yes.  Of course! that makes more sense. She also stated that Victor was a monster. I did not know what she meant by that... But I sure found out when he sued me and the scandal he created traveled the world.

For more about this subject, go to "Paranoia and Delusion"

Loan

Victor asked me for a loan to save his home. He needed to refinance his first mortgage and pay off a second loan. Originally, I was going to lend him the money and have a formal contract to make it official and to protect me. He decided to add the amount he needed as a loan (about 14,000) to the production budget. Please see text messages below.

In order for him to get the money from me to save his home, we had to raise the budget from $115,000 to $130,000. I did not mind doing this for my man. I would have done anything for him... And I did.

Please go to "The Loan" for more information about this subject and to watch a great video.

Stress and End of Intimacy

February, March, April and May of 2011 were very stressful months for Victor, me and anyone involved in the production of "Looking for Clara." Victor was working really hard to get everything ready for the filming in Italy.

We were still very close and intimate up to the time he left, when I took him to the LAX airport in early April. I did notice that he had a short temper and little patience. I justified his anger and frustration with lack of sleep and a high level of stress. I loved this man and was not to add any more stress to his life. I was nice and accommodating to him during the pre-production of our movie.

The last time we were intimate was right before he left for Italy in early April. I never thought that it would be the last time he and I were to be together - physically and emotionally.

Filming in Italy

We had to pretend we were not and had never been "together" when we were filming in Italy.  I played that part very well. Many of the cast and crew suspected that there was more between Victor and I. They asked Victor repeatedly. I believe that his lie got bigger and bigger, every time he had to justify our "relationship." Why would someone believe in an actor who had never directed a movie before? Who would risk that type of money just as an "investment"? There must me more of a relationship. That is what people started to believe... Of course, because it was the TRUTH.

Read "Filming in Italy" for more information about what happened in Italy.


Breaking Up

In Italy
I have already covered this point in another post. Please go to "The Break-Up" to learn what happened in Italy when our romantic/intimate relationship officially ended.

Back in the US

Although our romantic and sexual relationship ended when we officially broke up in Rome, we were still to break up our business relationship and friendship.  Because just going through that final break-up was journey to hell itself, I feel I should dedicate an exclusive post just to that.  Please go to "Friends With Benefits"


See Text Messages Below.

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Slander, Libel and Defamation




Update as of 10-15-2018 -- The case has been dismissed by both parties.  As we have agreed to move forward, the dismissed case will remain confidential.
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I found a great resource for legal definitions - ExpertLaw.comMost of the information I am using to write this post was gathered from the ExperLaw.com website and is being typed exactly as it appears on this publication.

On September 20, 2011, Victor Alfieri filed a lawsuit against me, accusing me of slander and libel, among other things.



What Are Defamation, Libel and Slander?

Generally speaking, defamation is the issuance of a false statement about another person, which causes that person to suffer harm. Slander involves the making of defamatory statements by a transitory (non-fixed) representation, usually an oral (spoken) representation. Libel involves the making of defamatory statements in a printed or fixed medium, such as a magazine or newspaper.

Typically, the elements of a cause of action for defamation include:

  1. A false and defamatory statement concerning another;
  2. The unprivileged publication of the statement to a third party (that is, somebody other than the person defamed by the statement);
  3. If the defamatory matter is of public concern, fault amounting at least to negligence on the part of the publisher; and
  4. Damage to the plaintiff.


What Defenses Are Available To People Accused of Defamation?

  1. The most important defense to an action for defamation is "truth", which is an absolute defense to an action for defamation.
  2. A defense recognized in most jurisdictions is "opinion". If the person makes a statement of opinion as opposed to fact, the statement may not support a cause of action for defamation.
  3. A defense similar to opinion is "fair comment on a matter of public interest".
  4. A defendant may also attempt to illustrate that the plaintiff had a poor reputation in the community, in order to diminish any claim for damages resulting from the defamatory statements.
  5. A defendant who transmitted a message without awareness of its content may raise the defense of "innocent dissemination". 
And there is an additional element that should be taken into consideration. Victor Alfieri has been an actor for almost twenty years and has appeared on numerous shows, movies, interviews, etc. He is considered a "public figure."

Public Figures

Under the First Amendment of the United States Constitution, as set forth by the U.S. Supreme Court in the 1964 Case, New York Times v Sullivan, where a public figure attempts to bring an action for defamation, the public figure must prove an additional element: That the statement was made with "actual malice". In translation, that means that the person making the statement knew the statement to be false, or issued the statement with reckless disregard as to its truth. 


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I was never afraid of losing the lawsuit. I did not commit libel or slander. All the accusations that Alfieri made against me were false.  I knew that his lawsuit had no merit.  What did scare me was not responding to this legal action. Failure to respond would have resulted in an award in his favor. 

As to my lawsuit against him, I was always aware that some of the causes of action in my cross-complaint were difficult to prove. However, I was willing to go to trial and have a jury decide.  Unfortunately, I stopped fighting because I had no financial means to continue. 

It is true that I would like to see this movie completed, released and distributed. I would love to recover some or all the money I invested.  I chose to drop the lawsuit against Alfieri because it was the best option I had at that precise time.

If asked the following question - If I only had 2 choices, which one would I choose?
  1. Distribute the movie and make one million dollars on the condition that I would never tell my story- my truth to anyone; and 
  2. Be able to speak up, tell my story on the condition that I don't get my money back from my investment or attorneys fees... not even one penny.
I would choose 2 without hesitation. And that might be the outcome of this whole saga, anyway - not even a penny recovered!

I am happy with my decision. I will not to sell myself out! I have chosen this path. I am willing to face the consequences with dignity and honor!



Disclaimer – As of October 15, 2018, all legal issues have been resolved. This resolution was reached during arbitration. There are no pending issues related to fraud or theft. The resolution was mutually agreeable. There will be no more posts written about this story.




Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Speaking Up


Update as of 10-15-2018 -- The case has been dismissed by both parties.  As we have agreed to move forward, the dismissed case will remain confidential.

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UPDATE - October 9, 2015 -- We are still litigating this case and are in the arbitration process. No updates can be disclosed at this moment.

Now What??


Now that both lawsuits have been dismissed, the movie has no "legal" obstacles to reach distribution. Hopefully this film will generate enough revenue for everyone to recover what was invested.

Chapter Closed?


The legal chapter is closed, at least for now. I certainly do not want to have another legal battle with Victor. In fact, I would like Victor to make money with this movie. After all the challenges, heartbreaking scandal, headaches and worries, something good should come out of this.

While I cannot deny that I would like Victor to tell the truth and apologize to me, I am aware that nobody can "demand" an apology from anybody else and expect to get it.

I also know that I cannot make anyone do the "right" thing by telling the truth. If they haven't done it so far, it could be because, for them, it does not feel like the "right" thing to do.... or they are simply scared.

I will be very honest. I have also been very scared to speak up about what really happened. But hiding it, or pretending like it never happened is not an option for me or for my healing.  I am responsible for myself - for what I think, what I say, what I do... and even what I feel. Nobody is responsible for the way I feel at any given moment.  And nobody is responsible for doing anything to correct or fix anything in my life. I have complete awareness of that.

Because I have that awareness, I have chosen to share my story with whomever is willing to listen. I might inspire others to honor themselves and their truth... I might remind others of the inner strength that we all have to stand up and fight for justice with honor and integrity.




Disclaimer -- As of October 15, 2018, all legal issues have been resolved. This resolution was reached during arbitration. There are no pending issues related to fraud or theft. The resolution was mutually agreeable. There will be no more posts written about this story.


Monday, January 7, 2013

Why Did Victor Alfieri Dismiss the Lawsuit?



Update as of 10-15-2018 -- The case has been dismissed by both parties.  As we have agreed to move forward, the dismissed case will remain confidential.

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On September 20, 2011, Victor Alfieri filed a lawsuit against me. The lawsuit contained salacious and false allegations about me. He made sure to leak it to the media with the help of his skilled publicist.

I would have been happy if he had dismissed it before I filed my cross complaint on November 10, 2011.  I tried to come to an agreement with Victor.

Victor's first offer was - He would dismiss his lawsuit if I agreed to walk away from the project and give up the $150,000 I invested. This meant, I would never see my money, I would not get my Executive Producer credit... and my reputation would remain "tarnished" by the slanderous allegations he made about me.

Why would I accept that offer?  I had no choice but to continue with the legal battle. Victor continuously affirmed that he had NOT touched the $17,500, that the money had not been used.

The money were not to be "touched" for any reason while this dispute was pending.  I remember telling my attorney, "if he assures that he has not converted this money and used it, then it should not be a problem to return it to me."

The only financial issue at this point was the money (my investment) that he had taken without my authorization. The defamatory statements he made about me were a separate issue... I was willing to let go of that if I got the "disputed" funds back.

My offer to him was -  I would not file a cross-complaint against him if:
  1. Victor would return the $17,500 to me.
  2. Upon payment, I would participate in the joint public statement saying something along the lines of "there was an accounting dispute. It has now been resolved."
  3. The joint statement would also confirm that there was a consensual relationship of an intimate personal nature.
  4. I would not waive/release any claims

He, of course, refused to return any money or admit that he and I had been in an intimate relationship. On November 10, 2011, I filed my original cross-complaint (you can read it at the bottom of this post).

After going through so many different attorneys, by March 2012, we had not reached any settlement. It was clear that we were continuing this legal battle. At least at this point, I had insurance and was able to take my case to trial.

March 30, 2012, Alfieri dismissed his lawsuit against me out of "good faith"?  On April 2, 2012, my attorney writes an email to me:
"I called opposing counsel to inquire about the dismissal and was advised that they wanted to show you how serious they are to get the movie sold and or distributed. I was told that they have finished the movie and now want to sell it and want you to be involved with same."
Dismissed.... just like that!  This sounded suspicious to me.

Alfieri Gives the Real Reason He Dismissed the Lawsuit

(Watch the video clip below to find out!)






Quote:

Q - At what point did you dismiss your lawsuit against Ms. Trevino? 
A - When I find out that Ms. Trevino had an insurance policy so she had a free lawyer. You cannot fight a free lawyer. So I have to, like, dismiss my lawsuit in order to become even with her.

To become even with me????  In other words...to force me to "fund my own litigation" or... to give up.


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to watch an even better video on YouTube.




Click below to see Original Cross-Complaint